Sunday, October 22, 2023

Shit I am never going to do to myself again

 




Let anyone talk me into doing something that I believe is morally wrong

Let anyone disrespect me

Let anyone cross my boundaries

Put up with people who don't respect boundaries

Stay silent when I know I should speak up

Listen to the bullshit voices in my head that tell me I can't do something. This would include any comment about being too sick, too fragile, too old, too weak, too broke, Etc

Tell myself something doesn't matter to me when actually it does.

Shame myself or let anyone else shame me for the things that matter to me

Tell myself that my needs come a boundaries, or priorities are less important than someone else's

Expect anyone to read my mind

Listen to a person's words rather than watch their actions

Let fear control me

Worry what other people think of me. Admittedly, this one is going to take some work.

Pretend to be something I'm not so that someone else will like me

Hide my badass light under a bushel because I'm afraid to outshine somebody else

Depend on a man for anything

Get into a living situation with a man where I don't have my own home to fall back on